I find that the technical instructions of Chanmyay Satipatthana follow me into the sit, creating a strange friction between the theory of mindfulness and the raw, messy reality of my experience. It’s 2:04 a.m. and the floor feels colder than it should. A blanket is draped over my shoulders—not because the room is freezing, but to buffer against that specific, bone-deep stillness of the night. My neck is tight; I move it, hear a small crack, and then immediately feel a surge of doubt about the "correctness" of that movement. The self-criticism is more irritating than the physical discomfort.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
I am haunted by the echoes of Satipatthana lectures, their structure playing on a loop. "Note this sensation. Know that thought. Maintain clarity. Stay continuous." In theory, the words are basic, but in practice—without the presence of a guide—they become incredibly complex. In this isolation, the clarity of the teaching dissolves into a hazy echo, and my uncertainty takes over.
I notice my breath. Or I think I do. It feels shallow, uneven, like it doesn’t want to cooperate. My chest tightens a bit. I label it mentally, then immediately question whether I labeled too fast. Or too slow. Or mechanically. I am caught in a familiar loop of self-audit, driven by the memory of how exact the noting is meant to be. Without external guidance, the search for "correct" mindfulness feels like a test I am constantly failing.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
There’s a dull ache in my left thigh. Not intense. Just persistent. I stay with it. Or I try to. I find myself thinking about meditation concepts rather than actually meditating, repeating phrases about "no stories" while telling myself a story. A quiet chuckle escapes me, and I immediately try to turn that sound into a meditative object. I try to categorize the laugh—is it neutral or pleasant?—but it's gone before the mind can file it away.
Earlier tonight I reread some notes about Satipatthana and immediately felt smarter. More confident. Now that I am actually sitting, my "knowledge" is useless. The body's pain is louder than the books. The physical reality of my knee is far more compelling than any diagram. I search for a reason for the pain, but the silence offers no comfort.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
My posture is a constant struggle; I relax my shoulders, but they reflexively tighten again. My breathing is hitching, and I feel a surge of unprovoked anger. I note the irritation, then I note the fact that I am noting. Eventually, the act of "recognizing" feels like an exhausting chore. In these moments, the more info Chanmyay instructions feel like a burden. They offer no consolation. They don’t say it’s okay. They just point back to what’s happening, again and again.
A mosquito is buzzing nearby; I endure the sound for as long as I can before finally striking out. The emotions—anger, release, guilt—pass through me in a blur. I am too slow to catch them all. I see that I am failing to be "continuous," and the thought is just a simple, unadorned fact.
Experience Isn't Neat
The theory of Satipatthana is orderly—divided into four distinct areas of focus. But experience isn’t neat. It overlaps. Physical pain is interwoven with frustration, and my thoughts are physically manifest as muscle tightness. I try to just feel without the "story," but my mind is a professional narrator and refuses to quit.
I break my own rule and check the time: it's 2:12 a.m. Time passes whether I watch it or not. The ache in my thigh shifts slightly. I find the change in pain frustrating; I wanted a solid, static object to "study" with my mind. The reality of the sensation doesn't read the books; it just keeps shifting.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. Heat. Pressure. Tingling. Breath brushing past the nose. I stay with what’s loudest. Then I drift. Then I come back. No clarity. No summary.
I don't have a better "theory" of meditation than when I started. I am simply present in the gap between the words of the teachers and the reality of my breath. I am sitting in the middle of this imperfect, unfinished experience, letting it be exactly as it is, because reality doesn't need my approval to be real.